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It’s time to make growth intentional.

Here’s how The Connection Plan cultivates family culture :

1. Embodiment

Imagine the kids growing up with memories of how your family embodied phrases like:

I see you and I hear you

I’m proud of you

You’re free to be different from me

Each plan helps you embody one Growth Message. Growth Messages are specific developmental statements that everyone needs to internalize in order to grow into emotional and relational maturity.

2. Simple Psych

There’s a science to families, kids, and relationships.

But you won’t need to read all the textbooks. The Connection Plan can equip you with essentials you need to know to grow. The roles of human development, psychological needs, and family systems all have a part to play in transforming your family culture.

3. Actionable Tools

We made tools for you that make a difference.

The Connection Plan includes resources like:

  • The Family Meeting

    prompts, lessons, activities, and discussion questions with fillable sections for planning and organization to make it your own.

  • The Legacy Builder

    to help you develop and write the story you want to leave behind— those key parts of your family’s culture, like— your mission, values, traditions, origins, and dreams.

  • Connective Habits

    to give you scripts, responses, and repeatables that will influence your family’s emotional climate.

  • Steps-Toward

    to supply you with meaningfully intentional ideas that will solidify the memory of your care and love.

Choose your plan.

Your next move could start a brand new chapter in your family story.

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  • You can think of The Connection Plan like an almanac for creating lasting connection. When you follow the plan every month, you start fostering meaningful connection and creating a healthy legacy.

  • Each month, you’ll receive a download link to the plan delivered to your inbox for 12 months.

    Each plan is themed according to a Growth Message— developmentally essential messages (eg. I will take care of you, I see you, you don’t have to be alone, etc.).

    It follows four general steps addressing:
    1. Your experiences
    2. Your structure
    3. Your habits
    4. Your growth

    Each plan builds on the previous month’s Growth Message to unfold a comprehensive picture of connective family culture.

  • When you subscribe, you’ll receive the one of twelve monthly Connection Plans. We’ll send the rest to you over the next 12 months.

    Plans include:

    • Reflective & educational prompt with questions

    • Inner (Home)work to help you deepen your understanding of your inner world.

    • A family meeting template with a pre-written activity, lesson, and discussion questions for the family meeting.

    • A Legacy-Builder tool that leads you through crafting and adding to your family story.

    • Ritual Reading (a simple, repeatable reading to remind and re-wire) your family culture.

    • Connective Habit Cards that inform conflict resolution, interaction, and situational reactions and responses.

    • Simple, meaning-packed, deliberate actions and ideas that are free and easy to help you intentionally pursue your family.

  • While it's specifically tailored spouses/parters who are parents of young children,

    • It’s highly adaptable—
      Every family looks different. As such, the plan is easily adaptable to a variety of family dynamics. Most activities and language would be equally meaningful for older children, or even families without children.

    • Everyone interacts with children—
      When adults have healthier emotional and relational lives, they become better models and examples for healthy relationships.

  • We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. Serious change takes time. However, if it’s becoming difficult to justify your subscription in the first month, we’ll gladly refund your subscription. Feel free to respond to any of our emails or reach out to us via our contact page.

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